Optimization over permutations is typically an NP-hard problem that arises extensively in sorting, matching, tracking, etc. Birkhoff polytope-based relaxation methods have made significant advancements, particularly in penalty-free optimization and probabilistic inference. Relaxation onto the orthogonal group offers unique potential advantages such as a lower representation dimension and preservation of inner products; however, equally effective approaches remain unexplored. To bridge the gap, we present a temperature-controlled differentiable transformation that maps unconstrained vector space to the orthogonal group, where the temperature, in the limit, concentrates orthogonal matrices near permutation matrices. This transformation naturally implements a parameterization for the relaxation of permutation matrices, allowing for gradient-based optimization of problems involving permutations. Additionally, by deriving a re-parameterized gradient estimator, this transformation also provides efficient stochastic optimization over the latent permutations. Extensive experiments involving the optimization over permutation matrices validate the effectiveness of the proposed method.